Prudence applied to women

I agree with Hanzo in that we wrongly idolize the type of hero that carves out his own path and fights against the world to create his own justice and truth. There is only one truth and that is God's truth. I think women also tend to idolize this false hero. They even desire that type of man. However, to have a man like that would be fun for a while but in the end, only cause heart-break and strife. Such a man does not love as Christ loved the church. There is no sacrificial love. There is no laying down of his own life for the greater good.
Also, I think women do themselves a great injustice by thinking they should be "equal" to men. This is not prudent. This idea does not consider the future, it embraces the "here and now." God made woman to be man's helper, not his competition. Why should women compete with men anyway? I think we tend to think men somehow have it "better." They get the better pay, the better social status, they have more power and influence, they are stronger physically, and they appear to have the freedom to walk away from family obligations. But really, a woman who is to be the wife of a man should fit him like a puzzle piece in that where he is lacking, there she can provide. I'm going off a bit from the subject of prudence, but to bring it back, I guess what I'm trying to say is, a prudent woman seeks God's truth and doesn't seek after the moment's pleasure.
Just my thoughts...